Lots of people have questions about love. You might be plucking petals from every flower you see, or sit around waiting for his calls.
Tarot cards can help you figure out what to do next. Ask, “does he love me?” and this simple three card spread may help you find the answers.
How To Perform the Does He Love Me Tarot Spread
To start the “Does He Love Me” Tarot spread, Shuffle your cards anyway that is comfortable.
While shuffling, visualize the person you’re asking about. You may also want to visualize the two of you together. Keep meditating on that visual and shuffle until you feel like stopping. Some people stop after a certain number of times (try this if you have a lucky number!), or until it feels right.
Next, split the deck into two parts and pick the top card from both decks. The first card you pick represents yourself, and the second represents the person you’re asking about. Lay both of these cards face down beside each other.
Put both decks back together and shuffle again. Once you stop, pick the card off the top. This card represents the solution to your question. Lay it underneath your first two pulls, creating a reverse triangle. This shape represents the question– can the two of you become one together?
Now flip them over!
Card 1 – You
The first card represents you at this very moment. Has wanting this person changed you for better or worse? Maybe they’ve made you work harder towards other goals. Maybe they’ve made you despondent.
Seeing a card like the Ten of Cups means that you’re open and receptive to what the world has to offer. You’re in a wonderful place for love, and ready for your cups to overflow with joy. A more straightforward card, like The Hermit, lets you know that you still need to prioritize alone time if you want to make this relationship work.
If the card you’ve chosen feels off, examine yourself. It might be that you need to retool your goals and how you see love before being with someone else.
Card 2 – Your partner
The second card represents your partner. It may tell you what part of life they’re in. Perhaps they’re in a similar frame of mind to you. They might be working towards completely opposite dreams.
This card can help you start to think critically about the partnership and if things would really work out between you two. When you interpret this card, try looking past what you want to happen and be open to a negative message. It may be exactly what you need.
Pulling any of the court cards (Page, Knight, Queen, or King) shows that your possible partner is on a specific journey. A card like Page of Pentacles would signify they’re in the beginning stages of learning self love and care. King of Cups represents someone who’s already towards the end of a journey.
While this doesn’t mean they’ve learned everything they need to know, it shows a dedication to caring for their emotions.
Card 3 – The solution
The final card helps you build a path to the solution. Does he love you is a question with tons of possible answers. This card wants you to ruminate on it.
Think back to the rest of the spread: how do all your cards work together? If it feels like they don’t mix, the answer could be no. If you think they have the same vibe, then it’s possible that making the next move could be the best thing you’ve ever done.
Pulling a Sword card here may be painful, but they’re the most straightforward of the tarot. Three of Swords gives you a visual of internal pain. Ten of Swords then brings up intense physical pain and loss. They may seem scary, but they desperately ask you to listen.
If you’re lucky enough to pull The Lovers, it wants you to know there are so many possibilities for love. Explore them! The person you want may also be looking for their soulmate. It’s one of the best signs for love in the tarot.
Should I Pursue a Relationship Tarot Spread?
This reading can help you decide if you’d like to pursue a relationship or not. Think about how the card that represents your partner makes you feel. How does it work with what you know about this person?
The final card in this reading isn’t the end all be all. Things can always change! The tarot is just a tool to help you live your best life. That being said, don’t ignore your intuition. If you have a weird feeling about someone that the cards seem to agree with, you might need more time to make a decision.
Do They Like Me Tarot Spread
If you find yourself asking again, “do they like me,” repeat the reading.
This spread is meant to help you make your way in the world. It can be done multiple times. Something may have shifted in the relationship. The cards want to help you find solutions so you can live a happy life. Don’t be afraid to ask the same questions if you feel stuck!
Remember that tarot isn’t the future set in stone. If you get a card you dislike, work towards changing that part of your life. This spread isn’t just a tool to gauge your partner, but also to see how you fit into the equation. It takes two to form a relationship.